Whispers of Winter: My Love Affair with the Cold
There’s something profoundly poetic about the cold — a stillness that seeps into your bones not to numb, but to awaken a different rhythm of life. While many may shrink from the shivers of winter, I have always leaned into its embrace. For most of my life — from my schooling years to my professional chapters — cold weather wasn’t a seasonal guest, but a steadfast companion. Nepal, Darjeeling, Mussoorie, Dehradun, Shimla — these weren’t just places on a map; they were stages upon which the drama of my life unfolded, draped in mists and wrapped in woollens.
The chill in the air, the crackling of dry leaves underfoot, the bite of the wind on one’s cheeks — these sensations are etched in my memory like a timeless hymn. The cold brought with it more than weather. It carried quietude, discipline, introspection, and above all, a peculiar sense of warmth found only in contrast.
In Nepal, winter mornings often began with the reluctant parting of warm blankets and a quick dash to a brass basin filled with icy water. One didn’t need an alarm clock when the cold slapped you into consciousness! But even those frosty awakenings built resilience — the kind that stays with you long after the fog clears.
The hill stations of Darjeeling and Mussoorie were my poetic playgrounds. The fog often played hide-and-seek with the landscape, creating silhouettes that danced like shadows in a dream. Tea tasted better when the fingers around the cup were half-frozen. Every breath that fogged my spectacles reminded me I was alive — very much so.
As a professional in the educational sphere, the cold served as both a teacher and a test. It demanded preparedness, punctuality, and perseverance. There was no room for lethargy when the first bell rang amidst a frosty dawn. I still remember those chilly assemblies — students bundled in layers, breath visible like little clouds of purpose, and the school anthem echoing through pine-scented air. The cold taught us to be still, to be solemn, and at times, even to be silent — all vital virtues in a world full of noise.
Of course, the cold isn’t always kind. It has its sharp edges. Doors creaked, water pipes froze, and heaters failed at the most inconvenient hours. But life, much like the weather, doesn’t promise comfort — it offers character.
Philosophically, winter has always been a metaphor for inner growth. In Indian mythology and spiritual texts, the season is often viewed as a time for contemplation and renewal. The Mahabharata speaks of the forest exile during the colder months as a time of spiritual refinement. Similarly, the Upanishads remind us that knowledge, like fire, glows brighter in the stillness of a meditative mind — and what better ambience for such contemplation than the calm of a Himalayan winter?
There’s a certain joy in watching the world slow down — to hear the silence of snowfall, to smell wood smoke curling from a distant chimney, to feel the crunch of frost under one’s boots. The cold doesn’t just touch the skin; it caresses the soul.
In retrospect, I owe a great deal to the cold. It honed my discipline, nurtured my love for books and music, and gave me a lifelong admiration for silence and stillness. It taught me to seek warmth — not just in fire or flannel, but in friendships, faith, and self-reflection.
Cold weather, to me, is no antagonist. It is a wise old friend — austere, but deeply affectionate. And as I sit now in a city where winters are less biting, I sometimes close my eyes and imagine a walk down Mall Road, Mussoorie — the smell of roasted peanuts in the air, the clang of church bells, and the comforting cold that whispered, “Keep going, you’re on the right path.”